Comments for What Do We Really Know About Love - Honestly Do We? http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com Tue, 09 Nov 2010 04:47:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on I Have Non-Biological Children Do I Have To Pay Child Support? by Crucio http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/12/i-have-non-biological-children-do-i-have-to-pay-child-support/#comment-11 Crucio Tue, 09 Nov 2010 04:47:29 +0000 http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/?p=12#comment-11 I see no problem in it as long as both parents love all the kids equally regardless how they came to be in the family. If able one day I’d like to have both. I am 1 of 4 kids and the only adoptee. I never felt treated differently then my brothers. I actually think I got a bit spoiled for being the only girl and youngest child. Bun in the oven – I think you feelings are naturally. Many parents whether their first child is adopted or natural. When they end up having a 2nd child again natural or adopted they probably question if they can love another child as much as their first. However love expands and grows. Congrats btw I see no problem in it as long as both parents love all the kids equally regardless how they came to be in the family. If able one day I’d like to have both.

I am 1 of 4 kids and the only adoptee. I never felt treated differently then my brothers. I actually think I got a bit spoiled for being the only girl and youngest child.

Bun in the oven – I think you feelings are naturally. Many parents whether their first child is adopted or natural. When they end up having a 2nd child again natural or adopted they probably question if they can love another child as much as their first. However love expands and grows. Congrats btw

]]> Comment on I Have Non-Biological Children Do I Have To Pay Child Support? by Bun in the oven http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/12/i-have-non-biological-children-do-i-have-to-pay-child-support/#comment-10 Bun in the oven Tue, 09 Nov 2010 04:06:56 +0000 http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/?p=12#comment-10 Interesting question. I also wonder how children feel when some are biological & some adopted. My opinion is you are a family no matter what the circumstances & each child is a special part that makes a family unique. I'll answer with what experience I have which is opposite from your situation. My hubby & I adopted from foster care after years of un-explained infertility issues. Our son is now 2 years old and I just found out I am pregnant! I worry I can't love another baby as much as I love my adopted son. He was placed with us at 5 days old & had abusive & neglectful parents. I feel extremely special that God chose me to be his mother & the bond I have with him is so strong I can't imagine loving my biological child more than my adopted one. I guess I will have to wait 7 more months to find out...but I imagine each child you have will be special & you will love it no matter how you became a mother. God Bless you & Best wishes! Interesting question. I also wonder how children feel when some are biological & some adopted. My opinion is you are a family no matter what the circumstances & each child is a special part that makes a family unique. I’ll answer with what experience I have which is opposite from your situation. My hubby & I adopted from foster care after years of un-explained infertility issues. Our son is now 2 years old and I just found out I am pregnant! I worry I can’t love another baby as much as I love my adopted son. He was placed with us at 5 days old & had abusive & neglectful parents. I feel extremely special that God chose me to be his mother & the bond I have with him is so strong I can’t imagine loving my biological child more than my adopted one. I guess I will have to wait 7 more months to find out…but I imagine each child you have will be special & you will love it no matter how you became a mother. God Bless you & Best wishes!

]]> Comment on I Have Non-Biological Children Do I Have To Pay Child Support? by Care http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/12/i-have-non-biological-children-do-i-have-to-pay-child-support/#comment-9 Care Tue, 09 Nov 2010 03:28:50 +0000 http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/?p=12#comment-9 I have 3 girls and adopted 3 girls.. They all get along and I love them all equally. Most of the time I don't remember that their adopted and don't treat them any different then my biological children. I think it is a great Idea to mix biological and adopted children together. I have 3 girls and adopted 3 girls.. They all get along and I love them all equally. Most of the time I don’t remember that their adopted and don’t treat them any different then my biological children. I think it is a great Idea to mix biological and adopted children together.

]]> Comment on I Have Non-Biological Children Do I Have To Pay Child Support? by Gaia Raain http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/12/i-have-non-biological-children-do-i-have-to-pay-child-support/#comment-8 Gaia Raain Tue, 09 Nov 2010 02:30:45 +0000 http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/?p=12#comment-8 If you even have to ASK this question, adoption is not for you. I promise you, your kids would resent you. All of them. If you even have to ASK this question, adoption is not for you. I promise you, your kids would resent you. All of them.

]]> Comment on I Have Non-Biological Children Do I Have To Pay Child Support? by Independant http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/12/i-have-non-biological-children-do-i-have-to-pay-child-support/#comment-7 Independant Tue, 09 Nov 2010 01:34:42 +0000 http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/?p=12#comment-7 Do you love them the same? You can try. I'd suggest watching Sofie's Choice but they were both biological. If anyone knows why she chose her son, let me know. Didn't catch why. Do you love them the same?

You can try. I’d suggest watching Sofie’s Choice but they were both biological. If anyone knows why she chose her son, let me know. Didn’t catch why.

]]> Comment on I Have Non-Biological Children Do I Have To Pay Child Support? by blue_eyes due 12/14/08!! http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/12/i-have-non-biological-children-do-i-have-to-pay-child-support/#comment-6 blue_eyes due 12/14/08!! Tue, 09 Nov 2010 00:40:46 +0000 http://www.nathanburtonandsarah.com/?p=12#comment-6 I think its wonderful. My husband and i are going to adopt 2 after this one is born, then we want to have another one and then adopt 2 more. We want a huge ethnically diverse family. I think it is beautiful. As long as you treat all children equally in everything, it should work out just fine. I think its wonderful. My husband and i are going to adopt 2 after this one is born, then we want to have another one and then adopt 2 more. We want a huge ethnically diverse family. I think it is beautiful. As long as you treat all children equally in everything, it should work out just fine.

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